3 ways to show clients you care
Speak their language
There are qualities that clearly signal to our clients that we sincerely care about them and their companion animals. One is our ability to communicate. It is a distinct art to talk medicine in the language of a nonmedical person. We must speak to our clients in a way that is helpful, without giving the impression that we are talking down to them. Our conversation should be gracious as well as sensible. Our clients will feel our respect for them if we speak in a dignified and caring manner.In some situations, what we say may be less important than how we say it. To paraphrase Hippocrates, our words should "first do no harm." Thought and practice are often required to express the right things in the right way.
Listen to understand —not simply to respond
Effective communication involves more than our speaking ability. It is linked to our ability to listen. In addition to developing our IQs, we must develop our EAR-Qs. Too often, we do not listen with the intent of understanding (empathic listening) because we have developed the habit of listening with the intent of replying (reactive listening).
Empathic listening is motivated by our intent to understand and demonstrate our respect for, and appreciation of, our clients and their companion animals. We should listen to understand the meaning of words, noting the feeling with which they are said. To be effective listeners, we must also take note of what our clients do not say. Before we contradict our clients, we must try to understand them. In the long run, good listeners usually earn greater trust and confidence from their clients than good talkers do.
Kindness is another quality that will signal to our clients that we deeply care. Kindness encompasses the desire to take an active interest in others and to demonstrate our interest by helpful acts in addition to considerate words. We show kindness by being friendly, gentle, compassionate, gracious, generous, patient and hospitable. Kindness also makes us considerate of our clients' viewpoints, especially when they differ from our own. It is kindness that attaches itself to a mission until its purpose in connection with that mission is realized.
If after application of our scientific knowledge and skills, we cannot take away our clients' concerns or frustrations caused by the pain or suffering of their pets, we can demonstrate our willingness to share them by our actions. However, our kindness should not be motivated by profit. We must use caution not to think of every solution in terms of the bottom line. Ethics call us to put the interest of our patients above our own financial interest. We must not lose sight of the fact that the veterinary profession has a service motive rather than a profit motive.
Heartfelt caring also results in trusting relationships that enhance our ability to provide effective patient care. Clients are more likely to listen to our interpretations of the causes of their concerns and to our recommendations when they understand how cooperating or complying with a request or a suggestion will benefit them.
So, how do clients recognize that we care? Their expectation that we are professionally competent is a given. But more is required. For some, caring may be more important than curing. Thus, we must strive not to be more concerned with the study of diseases than with the study of patients. When all is said and done, caring can only be measured by the action it prompts.
Dr. Osborne, a diplomate of the American College of Veterinary Internal Medicine, is professor of medicine in the Department of Small Animal Clinical Sciences, College of Veterinary Medicine, University of Minnesota.
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